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Senior Citizens Sex Relationships

Senior Citizens, Sex and Relationships:   Sexuality is a key component of human health in any age group.  Most seniors still enjoy intimate relationships with their partners.   As people live longer, more seniors will become single — either through death of a loved one or divorce.   Unfortunately, there are a lot of myths and misconceptions about sexuality in the elderly population.

The negative stereotypes of a “dirty old man,” or a “horny broad” are sometimes used to describe seniors who are interested in exploring their sexuality.  Sex is often perceived to be something reserved for the young and beautiful, and at the very least, for procreation.  Thus, elderly people’s need for intimacy is often overlooked.

Frequently, seniors find themselves in the unique situation of being single and needing to once again navigate the world of dating.  At this stage of life, however, they often lack the support of friends and family to help them successfully navigate the changing times and their changing needs.  In the elderly population, intimacy presents unique obstacles.

Therapy can help de-mystify this process and give each person the tools for healthy sexuality.  For example:

  • Dating in Later Life:
    • Developing realistic expectations for new relationships. Separating fact from fiction
    • Negotiating rules and limits of sexuality for seniors
    • Dating in an Assisted Living setting
    • Living independently while living at home with grown children
  • Sexually Transmitted Infections:
  • Sexual Dysfunction & Body Image
  • Common sexual functioning problems in later life
  • Body image changes over the life span
  • Healthy Sexuality:
    • What is healthy sexuality?
    • Breaking the taboo of silence
    • People are sexual from birth to death

Sex Therapy in Philadelphia - created for seniors citizens with sex questions on their minds.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

"Alex" Caroline Robboy,

“Alex” Caroline Robboy, CAS, MSW, ACSW, AAMFT, CSTS, LCSW is the founder and executive director of the Center for Growth Inc / Sex Therapy in Philadelphia, a counseling organization that has an office in Ocean City, New Jersey, Richmond Virginia, Alphretta Georgia and 2 offices in Center City, Philadelphia PA.   In her space time she launched the directory sextherapy.com as a resource tool for professionals dedicated to improving peoples sexual health.  Alex has 25+ years of clinical experience working with adults and children. Specifically, she works with people struggling with compulsion problems, personality disorders, neurodiversity (dyslexia, tourettes, sensory issues, adhd, and high functioning autism) anxiety, depression, postpartum depression, shame, trauma, low self-esteem, grief, relationship issues, sexual function & dysfunction, blended families and parenting concerns. Currently, she provides individual, couples, family therapy and group therapy. Lastly, she offers supervision to both staff and therapists outside of this agency seeking their LCSW or AASECT Certification in sex therapy.  Lastly, thru the Philadelphia International Women’s Project, she led a two year sex therapy group for West African women who experienced Female Genital Cutting as well as a sex therapy group for Sudanese women who experienced Female Genital Cutting. 

Ms. Robboy earned three graduate degrees at the University of Pennsylvania; Masters in Social Work, Post-Masters in Certificate Marriage and Family Therapy with a Specialization in Sex Therapy and a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality Education (otherwise known as ABD) as well as a Certificate in Home and School Social Work. Additionally, Ms. Robboy is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor of Sex Therapy and an ABS Certified Sexologist. Lastly, she is a Certified Imago Therapist. She is currently pursuing certification in CBIT.